138. Were the teaching true that all women must suffer pain and servitude for the sin of Eve, then it were pertinent to ask, Why must they suffer thus,—because they are Eve’s offspring? Are not men equally the offspring of Eve? The only answer is, “Because they are female offspring.” But who made them female offspring,—women or God? GOD. Then are we taught that God is punishing women, not for their own fault, not because they are sinners, not even because Eve sinned; God is punishing women for what He Himself made them—because they are women, not men. Away with such an attack upon God’s reputation for justice! And further, the idea that “sorrow,” in this verse means labor pains, or periodical suffering in women, is far-fetched; the same word is used of Adam in the very next verse. This word is not used for such suffering anywhere in all the Scriptures.
139. Since this passage in Genesis, “Thy desire shall be to thy husband,” has been the cause of much immorality among men, in the cruelty and oppression they have inflicted upon their wives; since this false translation has been the cause of much degradation, unhappiness and suffering to women; and since this translation has been made the very keystone of an arch of doctrine subordinating woman to man, without which keystone the arch itself falls to pieces; and since the Apostle Paul’s utterances on the “woman question” are always interpreted as though this perversion of the sense of Genesis 3:16 was his accepted foundation upon which he builds his super-structure, it behooves us to review again the history of the ancient translation of the word teshuqa, and this we will do with the aid of the appended table…
I read a moving post yesterday on Molly’s blog. She links to a place with post after post of Christian women accepting as a matter of fact that their very femaleness renders them less capable
I used to be right there with those women agreeing with the lies. Underlying my self-rejection and self-deprecation -deep down inside- I really believed that God loves His sons more than His daughters, that He prefers sons… There were even some scriptures which I thought “confirmed” that. Really, that is a LIE right from the pit of hell. And I honesty wonder how many women AND men -deep down inside- (behind the denial and the protestation) believe that to be a woman is inferior and less desirable than to be a man.
1 Peter 3 refers to woman as “the weaker vessel”.

This is not a defect,
but by God’s design and intentional on God’s part.
Self rejection and self hatred is sin.
God made me female and God loves me female!
HE rejoices over me with singing
I am HIS beloved
Zephaniah 3:17 “The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.”
These days God should punish women cause now the kinds of women living on earth have no respect for men they make men feel be little and they brag about how they are better genders. They hurt a man’s pride and abuse men physically and emotionally, talk about no different then Eve causing sin.
Did you wonder if your post would pass moderation 02clayclay?
You will not be able to fill that “respect vacuum” in your heart with anything a woman can give you. I suggest taking those unmet needs to God.
“This is the one I esteem:
he who is humble and contrite in spirit,
and trembles at my word.”
declares the LORD
Isaiah 66:2
This post is like reading a page from my childhood. “Women are more easily decieved, women are not meant to be leaders, women are more sinful…” all things I was taught growing up. By age 14 I hated God, convinced that He hated women.
Now I know the truth, and I shake my head in wonder that 1) we could get the message so messed up and 2) that we can so easily insult God with these lies. Woman is no creation of her own, but the complete work of our Lord. If we are inherently flawed then it is the fault of our Creator.
Charis, I know we share something very special: the unspeakable joy of knowing the truth of who we are in Christ after having been weighed down with those lies.
AMEN!